When I'm Gone

Sometimes, as a youth Pastor, I have to leave my family for days and even weeks at at a time for retreats, winter camps, summer camps, conventions, mission trips, all-nighters, and so on. Those of you who have to leave often on business trips understand the feeling. It pains me to be away from my family. This weekend I had to be gone for our Student Leadership Retreat. It has been a fruitful, team bonding time for these students. I'm thankful for what God has been doing in these students over the  years and the small part that I've gotten to play in their growth...

However, it's hard (after speaking to my family on the phone this morning following multiple failed Facetime attempts and seeing other families together in the lobby of my hotel) to hear the things that I missed out on even after one day. I miss my family like crazy and can't wait to see them this afternoon. 

It was an encouraging reminder I was given this morning, as I read scripture, of the power of prayer. Although I am not near my family I can pray for them no matter where I am and they will feel the power of those prayers in some way. As a husband and father it is my duty to constantly be covering my family in prayer. Wherever you find yourself in life; child, parent, sister, brother, cousin, etc (you get it), you have the incredible opportunity and privilege to pray for those you love...and even those you don't love. Don't miss out on it. God allows us to partner with Him. Let's be a people who take advantage of that. 

May we go forward in the strength and assurance that The Lord Jesus Christ goes with us no matter where we go. Amen.

"Teach me your way, O Lord, and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name. I will praise you  O Lord my God, with all my heart; I will glorify your name forever. For great is your love toward me;..." Psalm 86:11-13


~Chris~

Life Just Isn't Perfect

Wouldn't it be great if we were just perfect people who did perfect things, treated others perfectly, living perfect lives for the Glory of our Perfect God? There definitely wouldn't be any hardship and I would ALWAYS live up to other people's expectations of me. Even as I read back through those last couple of sentences it makes me laugh because unfortunately that does not describe my life...PERIOD. We have all experienced our sin nature blow up in our faces in very ugly ways. For me personally, I saw my sin nature blow up in my face just this morning in the way I dealt with my beautiful wife. She desires for our place to be neat, tidy, clean, and enjoyable to live in. I desire the same thing. Getting to the end goal, however, is where things get messy. We have a different path in each of our minds of how to get to the same end...

Isn't that how life is though? People with their own thoughts and feelings bumping into other people with their own different thoughts and feelings. I was reminded today of the importance of good communication. Not just communication but good communication.

Our relationships with others should abound with love. Is it easy? No. Is it attainable? Yes. We have a God who gives grace and mercy to us immeasurably. He has an endless supply of it and wants to give it to us so that we can give it (grace, mercy, love) to others out of his endless supply. I love this prayer that Paul has for the believers of Philippi.

"And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ--to the glory and praise of God." Philippians 1:9-11 (niv)

May we be known by the love of Christ which dwells in us richly...even when things get tough. If you have any prayer requests, my wife and I would love to spend time praying for you. Leave them in the comments section. Pray for us as we seek to love and serve the Lord with our lives. Until next time...


~Chris~

Life, Kids, God...

For those of you with children, you totally get the chaos of life; wondering how you fit God and ministry into the midst of responsibilities as a parent. All the while, desiring to be a faithful follower of Jesus and a good parent at the same time. I know for me, there are so many moments when I have to stop and show myself...really put into my field of vision, my selfishness. Here I am wondering how I'm supposed to fit God and ministry into my life when all the while I'm suppose to be allowing God to be the center of my life and let everything else fit in accordingly. To top it all off I know, intellectually, that if I put God at the center of my life I will be able to be a better person in my dealings with every other person I come into contact with. So I find, that intellectually, I truly know the mindset I'm to have but practically speaking, it doesn't always flesh itself out in my life. Thank God for his grace, his mercy, and his reminders.

Ya...I took a picture of a picture...

First time out to eat!

For those of you who don't know, my son Malakai has a condition called Microtia/Atresia. Long story short, he doesn't have a right ear as well as no opening to the inner ear and no ear canal. Yesterday (monday) we had one of his regularly scheduled appointments to check how his hearing is progressing, have his bone conducting hearing aid tested to make sure it's still working properly, and to let us know how the audiologists think he's doing. While there, I was reminded of God's faithfulness. We were living in India for half of Malakai's pregnancy. There was never any hint that he would have a birth defect. In fact, we didn't find out until he was born. The months after he was born were foggy at best but one of the biggest ways we saw God's faithfulness was how he provided the hearing aid. We're talking a $6,000 hearing aid that we received at no cost to us. God has been faithful to us in so many ways. It's amazing that Malakai is actually ahead of his peers. He gets to go to a special pre-preschool program for hearing impaired and he's leading his 3 year old peers (he just turned 2 last august) in class. John 9:1-3 is the verse we've claimed over his life. It ends by saying, "neither this man nor his parents sinned...but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life." (Jesus' words)

The reminder for me as a husband, father, and pastor...revolve my whole being around God, the Scriptures, and His glory being revealed through my life. "He works all things for the good (His idea of good), of those who love Him, who have been called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28) Would we be encouraged as followers of Jesus; that as we simply put God at the center of our lives, we will find ourselves radically displaying God through the ministry of our lives.


~Chris~

Reviving the BLOG

You know how you can get these funny thoughts in your head and you just can't get them out. Mine, last week, happened to be that I felt it was time to bring our blog back to life! At first I asked the question, 'Why?' It then became clear that God wants to use Liz and I to encourage and equip other followers of Jesus who could possibly be wrestling with the same things as us. So keep an eye out; this could potentially become a routine where we blog twice a week or even 3 times a week! Yikes!

To catch you all up from where we left off (with the blog of course), I (Chris) have become a Junior High Pastor, Liz and I have added two kids to our life (Malakai Gretsch 2yrs, and Laila Pearl 8months), and Liz has also started a new ministry at our church which ministers to moms with young children. Needless to say, we definitely have our hands full juggling this thing called life. I'm sure many of you understand the juggling we're doing and possibly more as you add extra children into the mix. Liz and I, however, still feel an incredible call to live our lives on 'mission' no matter where we live. Whether it's across the globe or back at home where it looks (in our case) as vocational ministry. And to be compltely honest, if I wasn't in vocational ministry, we probably would still be volunteering with the youth group, worship team, and Liz would probably still be leading this new ministry for moms with young children. Why you may ask? Because our hearts burn to share the love of Christ with others and help people grow in their walks with Christ. Simple. Intentional. Transformational (that's the work of the Holy Spirit).

On this early Sunday afternoon I'm just getting home from having my first "official" meeting with my Student Leaders for this new school year. I was reminded how important 'Discipleship' is. It's our 'mission' given directly to the original disciples by Jesus and passed down throughout the generations to us. This doesn't have to be hard. All you need are some older people that you like hanging out with, who follow Jesus, pouring what they've learned into you, and you taking what you're learning, and pouring that into a few people whom you enjoy hanging out with who are younger than you (or spiritually speaking younger than you). The even easier part is you're never alone. You get to do this with God and you don't always have to have the answers. Takes the pressure off right? Whether you realize it or not, God has given you insight and wisdom. Pass it on. If you ever come across a question you don't know the answer to, you have a wonderful opportunity to model what it looks like to seek out the answer together. Your children are a great place to start and practice (if you have your own children). Be encouraged. You don't have to be a professional to start ministering to others. You only have to be willing. You'll see God transform you "by the renewing of your mind" and suddenly the bible will begin to come alive to you in new ways. Don't put it off. Start now. It's such a blessing to pour out your life with the OVERFLOW of what God is pouring into you.

Love God (with your whole life; heart, soul, mind), Love Others. Simple.

Let's pray. May we be refreshed daily as we seek first your kingdom Lord. Amen.

"As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make very effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. There is one body and Spirit--just as you were called to one hope when you were called--one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all." Ephesians 4:1-6 (niv)


~Chris~